Female Fluidity

Hey loves,

So, you know that desire that burns up in your heart, engulfs you in flames of passion and you feel like you can literally move everyone out of your way for the sake of a certain quest? Yeah…I have had several of those. But it so happens that we of the Eve kind go through with this for some time, then burn out after a week or two. Our male counterparts, however, will keep that baby lit up for about 3 months…or until the job is actually done.

Well,disclaimer first;
I am not in the psychology business at all. I am just but a simple fanatic of how I operate as a woman: self-knowledge and all.  In my personal experience, the way society expects that I go about things pretty much does not work for me. When I have a mission in mind, traditionally, I would pour my focus onto it, laboring on it day and night. My attitude would be aggressive, wanting and wishing to break everything down. Within a few days, my energy would be worn out and I’d be tired and grumpy. And trust me loves, you do not want to be around me when I am ‘in a mood’.  But that’s the thing. God did not intend for me to have that aggressive energy. That is not what my feminine form can handle.

Today’s society wants strong women. And they imagine strength is bending over and breaking my back doing things the way men do it. And I do not refute the fact that women can do what men do. But the way do go about it does not necessarily have to be the same, because we are not the same. Female energy is all about fluidity. The energy going about it is not aggressive at all. It is about peace and calm so that we can think clearly, and not have all this blind passion while we are at it. Because women can be very VERY passionate.

So, the next time you have a project in mind, take a deep breath, and avoid going at it with aggression. Be patient and take a breath every now and then to figure out what your instincts tell you. Aggressive energy is good, but it will only get you so far. Patience, intuition, doing what works for you no matter how crazy it may look, putting details down to your specification, and really tackling that small problem that is nagging in your mind, making your office feel more homey to you…the list could go on. Just follow your gut. There is a reason we have so much of it. Female fluidity ,loves. Just let it flow.

Let me know how that works out for you.